So a little bit of a rant here. I make it a point to remember people’s birthdays. If they say “We’re going out for drinks in X, come along”, I come along, and I try and bring a small gift. In these money strapped times, a small thought is the best I can do, and usually it’s very much appreciated.
However, when it comes to my birthday. Nada. No one can make it, ever. My next birthday is my 30th (yes I am that old) and that’s supposedly a big deal. So I go and decide “Right, lets do something everyone can enjoy and doesn’t cost the earth. A trip to the zoo!”.
Less then 6 people said they could try and make it, the rest, no response. So I’ve cancelled it.
And every other birthday too, that means everyone elses. Could not be bothered anymore. If people cannot even show a bit of common courtesy and remember someones birthday, or at least respond to an invite, then why should I bother? I look at it that I can also save on average 200 Euro or more a year by doing this. Which is always nice.
A bit of a childish response? Yeah I guess it is. But after nearly a decade of no one giving even a “happy birthday”, why bother?